Saturday, June 17, 2017

Being Happy Sayings and Quotes.....




The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are.
Goldie Hawn

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have.      
Woody Allen
The art of being happy lies in the power of extracting happiness from common things.
Henry Ward Beecher
Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness.     
Frank Tyger


Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.     
Denis Waitley



Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.      
Nathaniel Hawthorne

cheers...............

Monday, May 29, 2017

Motivational Quotes by Famous Indian People

  • “All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think we become.” 
         Gautama Buddha.

  • “The tree laden with fruits always bends low. If you wish to be great, be lowly and meek.” 

          Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa

  • “We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far.” 
        Swami Vivekananda

  • “You must be the change you want to see in the world.” 
        Mahatma Gandhi.

  • “To succeed in your mission, you must have single-minded devotion to your goal.” 
      Abdul Kalam

  • “The biggest problem in the world today is not poverty or disease but the lack of love and charity and the feeling of being unwanted.” 
        Mother Teresa

  • “Winners don’t do different things; they do things differently” 
        Shiv Khera

Saturday, May 27, 2017

Quotes About Change



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“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” 
― Mahatma Gandhi



“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” 
― Leo Tolstoy




“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” 
― Albert Einstein





“Change will not come if we wait for some other person, or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” 
― Barack Obama





“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” 
― Mother Teresa



“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” ~Thomas A. Edison








Monday, March 27, 2017

HAPPY UGADI 2017

HAPPY UGADI



It is believed that the creator of the Hindu pantheon Lord Brahma started creation on this day - Chaitra suddha padhyami or the Ugadi day. Also the great Indian Mathematician Bhaskaracharya's calculations proclaimed the Ugadi day from the sunrise on as the beginning of the new year, new month and new day. The onset of spring also marks a beginning of new life with plants (barren until now) acquiring new life, shoots and leaves. Spring is considered the first season of the year hence also heralding a new year and a new beginning. The vibrancy of life and verdent fields, meadows full of colorful blossoms signifies growth, prosperity and well-being.

UGADI PACHCHADI 

It is a season for raw mangoes spreading its aroma in the air and the fully blossomed neem tree that makes the air healthy. Also, jaggery made with fresh crop of sugarcane adds a renewed flavor to the typical dishes associated with Ugadi. Ugadi pachchadi is one such dish that has become synonymous with Ugadi. It is made of new jaggery, raw mango pieces and neem flowers and new tamarind which truly reflect life - a combination of sweet, sour and bitter tastes!

Ugadi is celebrated with festive fervor in Maharashtra, Karnataka and Andhra Pradesh. While it is called Ugadi in A.P. and Karnataka, in Maharashtra it is known as "Gudipadava".

KAVI SAMMELANAM
Some find a different way of celebrating the festival. Kavi Sammelanam (poetry recitation) is a typical Telugu Ugadi feature. Ugadi is also a time when people look forward to a literary feast in the form of Kavi Sammelanam. Many poets come up with new poems written on subjects ranging - from Ugadi - to politics to modern trends and lifestyles. 

Practices

The Telugu, Kannada, Marathi, Kodava, Tulu and the Konkani diaspora in Telangana, Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka, Maharashtra, Goa, Tamil Nadu and Kerala celebrate the festival with great fanfare; gatherings of the extended family and a sumptuous feast are 'de rigueur'. The day begins with ritual showers, rubbing the body with perfumed oil, followed by prayers.
Preparations for the festival begin a week ahead. Houses are given a thorough wash. People buy new clothes and items for the festival, decorate the entrance of their houses with fresh mango leaves. The significance of tying mango leaves relates to a legend. It is said that Kartik (or Subramanya or Kumara Swamy) and Ganesha, the two sons of Lord Siva and Parvathi were very fond of mangoes. As the legend goes Kartik exhorted people to tie green mango leaves to the doorway signifying a good crop and general well-being.

It is noteworthy that we use mango leaves and coconuts (as in a Kalasam, to initiate any pooja) only on auspicious occasions to propitiate gods. People also splash fresh cow dung water on the ground in front of their house and draw colorful floral designs.[2] People offer prayer in temples. The celebration of Ugadi is marked by religious zeal and social merriment. Special dishes are prepared for the occasion. In Andhra Pradesh and Telangana, eatables such as "pulihora, bobbatlu (Bhakshalu/ polelu/ oligalu), New Year Burelu and Pachadi" and preparations made with raw mango go well with the occasion. In Karnataka too, similar preparations are made but called "puliogure" and "holige".

Special dishes

Bobbattu or Bhakshalu/Holigey -prepared on Ugadi in Andhra Pradesh and Karnataka.

In Andhra Pradesh and Telangana, a special dish called Bobbattu (Polelu) (Puran Poli) (Oliga) are prepared on this occasion. This special dish is called Bhakshalu in Telangana. These are eaten along with the Ugadi Pachchadi mentioned earlier. In Karnataka a special dish called Obbattu, or Holige (ಹೋಳಿಗೆ / ಒಬ್ಬಟ್ಟು), is prepared. It consists of a filling (gram and jaggery/sugar boiled and made in to a paste) stuffed in a flat roti-like bread. It is usually eaten hot or cold with ghee or milk topping or coconut milk at some places of Karnataka.

Greetings

In Telugu, the greeting is "kroththa yeta" / "ugadi panduga" palukarimpulu, or "ugadi subhaakankshalu" - "క్రొత్త ఏట" / "ఉగాది పండుగ" పలుకరింపులు, లేదా ఉగాది శుభాకాంక్షలు (Greetings for the festival of ugadi) and "Nutana samvastara shubhaakankshalu" -నూతన సంవత్సర శుభాకాంక్షలు (Greetings on the new year).
In Kannada, the greeting is "Yugadi Habbada Shubhaashayagalu" - ಯುಗಾದಿ ಹಬ್ಬದ ಶುಭಾಶಯಗಳು (Greetings for the festival of Yugadi) or "Hosa varshada shubhashayagalu" - ಹೊಸ ವರ್ಷದ ಶುಭಾಶಯಗಳು (Greetings on the new year).



Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Having a Best Friend


Having a Best Friend




A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.
The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand “Today my best friend slapped me in the face”.
They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone “Today my best friend saved my life”.
The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?” The other friend replied “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”
Moral: Do not value the things you have in your life. But value who you have in your life.


Thursday, January 12, 2017

12 Steps Towards Happiness









1. Focus on health: the Physical, cosmetic, mental and spiritual health. Be fit, try to look good, feel good and think good!

2. Social connectedness: Real and Virtual. Meet people, interact with others, show up and try to have your own circle of people who make you feel good. Do not isolate yourself!

3. Sense of mastery and satisfaction: Try to have some goals for life and slowly and steadily work towards them. Try to develop a sense of mastery and competency at work and home. Do not run away from hard work.

4. Spirituality, prayer and social service: Try to keep some time for inner reflection and introspection. Search for a higher cause of your existence and develop your own ways towards your spirituality, internal peace and service towards society.

5. New experiences: Seek out new experiences in the form of travel, learning something new, meeting new people and learning to improve one's perspective at looking at the world!

6. Spend time with family and loved ones: Keep aside the busy schedule, push work away sometimes and stay around with family. Family is certainly more important than earning money! Seek that quality time with family!

7. Stop being judgemental of others.Break away the prejudices in your mind! Be genuine and helpful towards all!

8. Work for earning some money for daily and monthly expenses. Work for saving some money for larger investments. But remember money is not everything and does not necessarily follow that simple an equation of more money, more happiness! It is a rather very complex equation!

9. Have a zero conflict policy! Have maximum expectations from self and minimum expectations from others!

10. Develop a strong value based system.Stand up for your choices.

11. Develop alternate thinking pathways! Look at new perspectives! Put in questions such as "So what?", "Why not?", "' Big deal", "It happens; Its life" once in a while when complex events confront you face to face! Try to look at things from an intellectual perspective as well!

12. Try to be creative! Seek out hobbies and interests such as photography, cooking, art, travelling, reading, etc! Keep time for leisure activities and relaxation on a regular basis






This article was originally published on Practo Health Feed by Dr. Darpan Kaur, Psychiatrist





Thursday, January 5, 2017

5 small resolutions that make a big difference




Small resolutions that make a big difference.

Drink some tea

After consuming a month’s worth of food and two months’ worth of drink within just one week, it’s no wonder that after the Christmas period we all vow to be healthier and lose weight over the coming year. Yet, how many of us manage it and how many of us come up with excuses about why we can’t stick to our resolutions?
Research shows that the weight we gain at Christmas is not usually lost over the ensuing 12 months and that every year we get heavier. To change this predictable pattern, get into drinking herbal tea. Some herbal teas, such as green tea, are thought to aid weight loss, and the antioxidants within herbal teas can help improve your skin and protect your heart and blood vessels.

Book a course

The long, festive break can make going back to work harder and many people want a career change or a new job come January. Although this might be a good thing, finding a new job is not an easy task. To make this New Year’s resolution achievable you should book onto a course at your local college.
Take a look at the jobs you would like to have; what qualifications or experience are employers looking for? If you see a gap on your CV that could hold you back from getting the career you crave, then book onto a course. Before you do so make sure that the course is recognised within your industry and that it suits your style of learning.

Piggy bank

Most people’s bank accounts are not looking too healthy after the dozens of presents you have just forked out on. Therefore most people make a New Year’s resolution to improve their finances over the coming year. Although this sounds like a simple resolution, it’s one that most people fail to stick to after February.
To make sure this year is different, buy a piggy bank and when you get home from work stick in some coins you have loose in your wallet, purse or pocket. It is surprising how quickly and how much money this saves. After two or three months you will need a new piggy bank. Do not open the money boxes until December next year. Chances are, if you’ve stuck to the daily money-giving routine, you’ll have enough saved to cover the costs of Christmas.

Read more

Now that you’re no longer at school, it can be difficult to find the time and energy to read. Once you’ve settled into bed with a good book it can only be a few minutes before you’ve nodded off. Yet, reading can improve your memory and help prevent mental decline, so not only is it relaxing and enjoyable it’s also great for our mental health.
To make sure you get to read more this year why not buy a collection of short stories? You could also join a book club to make sure you stay focused every month. Another way to make sure you read more this year is to download a book list that has been voted for by others, so that you have a stock of well-written and gripping books to read. Finally, you can always start a book review blog and write your opinions on the books you’ve read.

Travel

After slipping back into your normal routine , most people are desperate to break out of the rut they feel their life has fallen into. Most people yearn to travel in order to break free of their normal restraints, but quitting your job, leaving your home and tying up other responsibilities like re-housing your cat means that traveling around Thailand for six months is not a realistic New Year’s resolution.
Yet, other forms of travel are achievable and can make a big difference to your attitude towards your current lifestyle. For example, rather than going on your usual vacation this year why not volunteer on an overseas project for two or three weeks? You can also travel within your local area. Pack a bag and head out exploring for the weekend. Don’t book any accommodation, just head to the train station and catch a train somewhere new. Although not the most glamorous of trips, you will still get a thrill from the unexpected and will not feel like your life is so predictable or planned out.



cheers...............